When it comes to sex, the average man lasts only five to ten minutes. When you consider the fact that women require an average of 15 minutes to reach an orgasm, you get the idea why the fairer sex fakes orgasms so often. And don't get drawn into those adult movies where the guys last like an eternity. Those are NOT your average guys. They are trained, conditioned and practiced to screen perfection. So can you overcome your inadequacies and last as long as that porn stars (or at least, last long enough for her)? Over 75% of men are asking this same question. Truth is, you can last much longer than you did yesterday, and there is no stopping you once you learn these little tricks I have lined up for you below. Use them well!
Put some self-loving to good use
Most guys masturbate with the intent for self gratification. Do it with a little difference this time - with the sole purpose of lasting long enough to give a woman an orgasm. In other words, don't rush through your acts of self-stimulation and getting if off early. Slowly work yourself to 5, 10 and 15 minutes of endurance (that's how long it takes for a woman to reach an orgasm). Now here's the trick. Try bringing yourself close to a climax, but don't let yourself ejaculate. Hold it. Progressively increase your endurance until you can hold it like a stallion.
Aim for a second round
Whoever says you can have sex only once? If you are one who ejaculates within 2 to 4 minutes, and she is far from being properly aroused, there should be no stopping you from stimulating her with your fingers and your tongue. Try going down on her and giving her oral sex. This is one of the easiest ways to give her an orgasm, and at the same time, allow you to "recover" from the first round of early fire. The second time round, because it takes far more effort to get yourself aroused, you will last much longer.
Focus on experiencing sex rather than having sex
Rather than craving for instant gratification, sex is something to be savored and experienced to the full. So stop thinking about your own orgasm. The more focused or anxious you are about climaxing too early, you WILL ironically climax early. Instead, draw your attention and focus on her happiness. At the same time, enjoy the moment, such as feeling her body weighing down on you while she's on top or sensing her thrusts as she controls the momentum. This way, you will keep your own heightened sensations at bay.
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here: http://www.ejaculationbycommand.com/
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